Sunday, March 16, 2025

Alyssa Leaves for the Philippines


It was unbelievably hard to say goodbye to Alyssa. What do you say to your child, or sister, as you say goodbye to her, knowing that you will not get to hug her again for 18 months. We got to the airport around noon and get her bags checked quickly. We had about an hour of sitting with each other in the waiting area before sending her through security. 
When it was time for her to go, she hugged her grandparents in the waiting area. 

The rest of us walked with her to security. This pictures make me so sad because the kids were crying all afternoon after saying goodbye to her.



I don't have the picture with me because it is on Danny's phone. We waved goodbye and watched her come out on the other side of security. Then we started to pray that she would arrive safely.
Alyssa made this for Camden before she left when he was sad and he carried it around with him for the next week.

 Three excruciatingly long days later, we found pictures of her on Facebook at the MTC. Shortly before we saw the pictures, we had a couple of emails from Alyssa telling us when p-day was and letting us know that she would be calling later that day to get our help connecting to her Facebook account on her new phone (she needed a code sent to her phone at home)






As you can see from the pictures, she was one of the few Americans in the MTC the whole time she was there. She was also one of the tallest (only a few elders and one sister were taller or the same height as her for the entire 9 weeks). Little by little, we have been able to get information from her about her trip there. The layover in San Francisco was long. She did a lot of pondering and crying, I'm sure Someone bought her dinner at the airport. We wished he had taken a picture of her and sent it to us, but oh well. She also had a guy on her flight hit on her and ask her to meet up with him when she gets back to the states. The flight was long, but she said she was able to sleep on it. When she got to the airport in Manila, her bags were not there. She filed a report with baggage claim and then had an awkward 2 hour drive with a driver to a hotel in Manila. Eventually, she met up with another American missionary (an Elder) and they walked around a bit to kill the time. That Elder ended up being in her district and they became good friends. She arrived at the MTC the next day and they told her they would send us word that she had arrived (but we never got anything). Her bags took 4 days to arrive, but her companion let her borrow stuff and the MTC Presidents wife gave her some clothing. Her district had 2 brothers from Africa, 3 sisters from Pakistan one of them ended up being her companion), the American Elder, a Sister from Austrailia, and a Sister from New Zealand. Once her bags arrived, things got much better for her.

Family Photo Shoot

About a week before Alyssa left, we got family pictures taken. We usually get this done about every other year, but who knows when then next time will be. We were happy with how they turned out.








We got shots of Alyssa with each of her siblings


The photographer was so good with the kids, especially Tyler who refuses to look at the camera in any pictures we take of him. At one point she even threatened to add a mustache to his picture if he didn't look at the camera. And then this was the first shot in the gallery.

I love looking at these pictures and preserving that time in my memory when all of my kids were home with us. We may never have that again.




 

Tyler Receives the Priesthood

On January 5, Tyler was ordained to the office of a deacon. Alyssa was 2 days away from leaving for the Philippines and Tyler was happy to have her there still. Gawbie and Grandpa were able to come, too. This was one of our last family pictures together before Alyssa left.


We moved the bishopric along quickly with Tyler's temple recommend, because Alyssa wanted to be able to go with Tyler the first time he went. We thought we would have a couple of weeks to fit it in, but with the change to Alyssa's MTC and start date, we had the morning of the 7th to have them go. We had to be to the airport at noon. So Alyssa, Ashley, Tyler, and Danny headed off to the temple at 6:30 am that morning and were back home with enough time for us to sit around and enjoy the last couple of hours with Alyssa. He enjoyed the temple and has been back multiple times since.

The first time he passed the sacrament was in the YSA ward. They gave him the easiest route and he did a good job with it. It was cute to see him standing up there with all of the YSA's. We are still getting used to having him in the young mens, but he seems to be enjoying it.